"bleed the sucker for all he's worth"
I once read an
interview of a man who is hired by top atheletes to negotiate
contracts for
them. One piece of advice he gave is: always leave something
on the table. If
you squeeze for every cent you cann get, it leaves a
bad feeling, and
problems that come up are more difficult to resolve.
While many
around me were having ethics problems over family disagreement
with
scientology, that was not a problem for me. I simply kept the pr
in, and
never asked the family for bridge money. When my mother viewed
a particularly
intense tv attack on Scientology, she did get concerned.
I said to her: you
know me. would I join a group like that? That handled
her
totally.
When I started losing control of my life, tho, after some
particularly
out-tech Flag handling, my family DID get concerned. I wasn't
surviving
up to their expectations. I wasn't doing well at all. I kept
defending
Scientology to them. They felt (legitimately) that if Scientology
wasn't
the cause, at least they should be helping me, especially given all
that
I contributed in the past.
This family pressure continued for
years till I finally gave up, joined
FZ, and stopped acting like I was
falling apart.
Oh, by the way, they think I am still involved with
Scientology, but
that is ok now, because I am doing fine.
There is
more wealth to be had by helping your supporters become
strong.
Chloe